Back on the Bikes

We bought Vicky a new bike at the weekend – one that has 7 gears and handlebar brakes – hopefully this will help us get out more.

We went out on Sunday evening and then again tonight so we have started out in the right direction we think 🙂  Incredible that mid January we can go out with shorts and a t-shirt after work on bikes !! Let’s hope this nice weather stays with us for a while longer.

Simon gave up on the search for glasses last weekend when he found that not only will the US folks not supply the super thin lenses – some crap about Health and Safety – the lady in the Optician suggested that the thinner lenses could break and cause facial damage – Simon’s reaction was typical Simon – bollocks, they are plastic and will not break.  On top of this there were other issues that highlighted a lack of confidence in their ability to build a set of glasses that would actually function to Simon’s UK prescription.  So we have sent an email to the UK optician with the hope that they can setup the required glasses and then we can figure out a means to ship them to us out here.

We are in the middle of deciding whether we should look for an alternative accommodation out here, so have started a little search.  We are going to look at a property on Monday that is walking distance from Elliot’s school, has four bedrooms, is 40% more spacious than what we have today AND has a pool and hot tub in the back garden – yay ! It is just $700 per month more expensive – we are seriously considering this additional expense – will help with guests and will be MUCH better for the kids to be able to play outside in a garden.

Holy crap, 23 Celcius in January

WOW – it has been 23 degrees Celsius in he area today.  We were soooo caught out with our choice of clothing.  Shorts and t-shirts would have been the right choice today – blue sky and sunshine 🙂

We have been out shopping today nearly all day – Simon has been looking for some new glasses and so when he found some that he liked, the staff in the optician pointed out that the glasses in question are not available to someone with such bad short-sightedness – not sure what to make of that….. 🙁

Coldstone Creamery shouted out to us as well……. and beat us…… 🙂

Good to be back

Simon has really missed the 15 minute commute 🙂  It is GREAT to be back for that alone 🙂  The four trips to Daresbury from Ossett were hard – feel for Mr Leech who is still doing that commute most days…. 🙁

Olly had his first night last night where he was not allowed to sleep in mummy and daddy’s bed.  It was hard letting him cry in his cot, but it was necessary.  His “training” in the UK needed undoing.  hopefully tonight will not cause the same challenge….

Vicky has spent the last two days tidying up the Christmas decorations and the toys that the boys seem intent on getting out, messing with, then getting out again (once mummy has tidied them away).

We have a long weekend ahead of us so we are looking to do something out of the ordinary so that we don’t end up wasting yet another weekend.

Oh, the automatic watch winder that Simon ordered for our new watches arrived just before we got back here, and it works a treat.  It could take up to four watches that are automatic and then up to 6 other battery operated watches or jewellery.  A steal at $85 delivered – the item that we looked at in the shop where we bought the watches was a mere $700 for just ONE watch…. Guess that’s what you get when buying branded items…. Rolex was the brand in the case of $700.

Finally, the weather is on the up – was 18 Celcius today and blue skies – oh ddaaaaaammmmmnnnn 🙂

Christmas and New Year in the UK

Our apologies for the lack of updates during December and over Christmas and New Year.

We all went back to the UK for 3 weeks vacation (well, Simon worked a few days) to enjoy the festive time with friends and family.  During this time, some dumbass switched off the IT kit in the house, when meant that the website could not easily be updated – hence it wasn’t updated at all 🙁

Anyway, we got back yesterday evening following a 4 1/2 hour drive down to London’s Heathrow airport, and then a 11 hour flight direct to San Francisco.

The boys were really good considering the amount of time spent sat down doing very little, and they really enjoyed Christmas Day #3 when they found a third set of parcels here in Los Gatos.  The first set were in Ossett and the second in Halifax.  Father Christmas really has spoiled them this year 🙂

We are hoping to begin Olly’s training tonight, as he has been unwell during most of the time in the UK, culminating in his requirement of sleeping in the same bed as mummy and daddy pretty much every night.  We allowed him to sleep with us again last night, what with it being our first night back, and hence our need for sleep to get into the timezone etc.  Tonight he will not be so lucky….

The journey begins…

We have just returned from a great trip home to England for Christmas to a little bit of a surprise.  Elliot took some Kindergarten readiness tests in December so we headed into school to get the results.  We met with Teacher Bonnie Elliots 4 day Preschool teacher at Mulberry to discuss what they found.  The tests are designed to determine how well your child is doing and whether they are ready for Kindergarten.  Although we are not completely blind to how Elliot has been doing since we arrived in California I think what we are about to find out is still a little bit of a shock.  Elliot has always been what we have described as very quite and struggles to integrate with his peers, I guess in England he would probably be described as a very shy little boy.  This aside we sit down to discuss the tests with Bonnie, in which many areas of development are assessed.  The expectation at Elliot’s age is to be scoring an average of 7 in all of the various areas.  Anything above this is determined above average and the child is doing really well.  This is where the good news starts and pretty much ends……..Elliot scored well over 7 in lots of areas in some areas 14 and 15 the bad news is that he scored 0 in lots of areas also.  So what could this possibly mean Bonnie seems to think there is some sort of learning difference in play here.  I’m not so sure and here is why………..

Since Elliot was 18 months old he has always had a very high pitched scream, this obviously doesn’t sound like much but this coupled with some other unusual behaviours such as reluctance to change in routines, his reaction to relatively normal situations, difficulty mixing in any large groups, especially his  peers and struggling to express emotions have made me wonder if he is on the Autism Spectrum.  From what little I knew about Autism I felt that Elliot was not severely Autistic but he certainly is exhibiting characteristics from the spectrum.  With this in mind I decided to ask Bonnie the question I didn’t want the answer to.  “Do you think that Elliot is Autistic?”

Bonnie answered with a very firm No but did feel that something else maybe in play and discussed the term “Learning Difference” again.  As Elliot is such a bright little boy I struggled to think how this could be the case.  Bonnie suggested that the next steps would be to enlist the help of the student support worker Paula Ramos to come into class and observe Elliot.  We also needed to start considering our options for next year as the test showed Elliot wasn’t ready for Kindergarten so we would need to make another choice.  Simon and I leave the meeting feeling pretty shell shocked no parent wants to here that their child isn’t the next genius in the making let alone has “issues” they need to overcome.  We certainly have a lot to think about until our next meeting with Bonnie and Paula.  Hopefully Paula will be able to come into class and observe Elliot pretty soon.